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Strategies for Connecting with Your Best Self

November 3, 2021 by Zen

What is your Best Self?

Before considering strategies for connecting with your best self, your definition of your ‘best self’ is imperative to know. It takes a bit of critical thinking about your activity; the attention, intention and interaction you have with yourself, others and the world on a daily or moment-by-moment basis. Are you happy with the results? Could they be better? How?

How do you see yourself? How would you like to see yourself? What might be the simple changes you can make to reach from the former to the latter, if there is a difference? Being able to catch a glimpse in the mirror may not always work. Many, like myself, seek out reflections of who we are through investigating personal assessments of various kinds. Sometimes we made need some clarity on our ‘Why?’ in life.

Do We Know Ourselves?

strategies for connecting with your best selfA little research would provide a plethora of surveys that offer views based on your honest responses. The key is ‘honest’ and some choices of preferences are tough to make. Some of those surveys are paid, like BrainMap, DISC, Kolbe, and Clifton Strengths (formerly Strengthsfinder).Then there are some free alternatives like Myers-Briggs, Genius Report,  High 5 Test, Keirsey Temperament Sorter, Big Five Personality Assessment and Holland Code to name a few. If you are curious, that will keep you busy and provide much for consideration and reflection.

In my own quest for strategies for connecting with my best self one, an example of a Genius Report survey, defined me as a ‘Dynamo Genius.’ Remember this isn’t about bolstering your ego, it’s about learning the keys to transcend your ego and engage a perspective of ‘wego’ in collaboration with others. The tendency, I suppose, is to want to pat yourself on the back for being such and such. That’s not the purpose. Hopefully, you seek to learn how you can work better with your natural aptitude, attitude, strengths and weaknesses. Sometimes we aren’t self-aware enough to understand how and why we approach life like we do.

When it comes to expressing your thoughts, feelings and emotion you tend to use lots of inflexion, more pitch variation, more variety in vocal intonation and vocal quality. High Yellows communicate readily – answer and comment quickly, and tend to speak more forcefully, at a higher volume and a faster, more forceful, pace. Your voice is the primary mechanism through which you influence the brain responses in others.

IQ, EIQ and the Esoteric/Spiritual

If you’ve ever taken an IQ test, you get a score that places you in certain percentiles of the population. Many of the above surveys or tests do the same. There is a plethora of personality types as well as communication and problem-solving preferences. At some point most of us thought that other people feel and think like us, which is a often a huge stumbling block for effective communication and working with others in any way. Sometimes seeing ourselves revealed in such ways gives us the opportunity to overcome the imposter syndrome, which is loosely defined as doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud.

What we hope for in our search for strategies for connecting with your best self is a reflection of how we know ourselves to be, yet may not have defined or discovered our characteristics and strengths that allow us to be our Best Self. The above consider our preferences, mostly, in dealing with situations we encounter in life, relationships and work. By considering these perspectives in short order, such as the assessment, we can get a better overall picture of our nature. When we know ourselves better, we can better manage how we respond to situations beyond our control. There’s another aspect we haven’t considered yet, and that is Emotional Intelligence.

No matter what situation we encounter, how we respond emotionally is usually the core of how we negotiate through life’s moments. Daniel Goleman’s work resulted in another kind of survey; the Emotional Intelligence Quotient test which is based on research and study of many behavioral, cognitive and developmental scientists. Nearly all the above surveys are in some way associated with IQ. Much of how we handle situations does involve IQ; our academic performance indicators as well as person and professional success is highly influence by it, though IQ doesn’t answer all the possible reasons for how we behave.

What I’ve found to be true is that other types of assessments and charts also reveal the same or similar things. In considering strategies for connecting with your best self there is a decisive and distinct correlation with the astrological birth charts as well as numerology reports. If you doubt that, compare them yourself. The ‘predictive’ nature often associated with the ‘esoteric sciences’ is a very small aspect and, quite frankly, an easy distraction for not paying attention to life and making the best choices. The two forms mentioned offer the same, perhaps even more revealing, reflections of challenges and opportunities in life.

Opportunities in Creating Your New Normal

strategies for connecting with your best self

The recent events in the world have challenged our freedoms, our safety and our ability to rise above the challenges as resilient humans that we are now. Two things began this process of global self-assessment; the obsession on self-hygiene and sequestration. While we were concerned with the safety and security in the outer world, our inner world suffered greatly from the lack of human interactions. We simply aren’t designed to be alone, though being alone gives us time to think. How we think is the key to our survival and thrivability.

On the one hand we can think about the destruction and devastation of livelihoods. It includes the inability to perform normal rituals with family and friends, whether for births, marriages or deaths. We’ve never encountered that kind of limitation in our lifetimes, and certainly never globally. There’s a lot of reasons to belabor those points. However, rather than getting sequestered in the mayhem and projecting our anger toward some unknown enemy, let’s consider another opportunity that has been placed in front of us.

We’re faced with immense challenges in restoring or retrofitting our lives and work; designing strategies for connecting with your best self is imperative. Mandatory actions to remain employed are ripping people apart from the inside, faced with losing job security and support for their families. Many consider it their ‘only way out’ of a horrible situation and succumb to the process just to support their families. Our compassion and understanding is tantamount to our transition through this period.

It could be that with better knowledge of our skillset, personal and professional preferences, not to mention strengths, would give us the opportunity to shift into something more compatible with our conscience. None of us are alone, although it may feel like it at times. Did you know that knowing yourself better also allows you to know others better, too? Even though it may be tedious or seem inconsequential at first (rarely do we like tests), growing in your self-awareness only benefits you. That’s just the beginning in developing strategies for connecting with your best self.

your best selfNow you’ve at least considered trusting the reflections offered from answering questions about you honestly. Now what? What do you do next? Perhaps the way is clear now and your path forward is obvious. That’s amazing! Congratulations! It’s also rare. We usually need help. Help can come in a variety of forms. Exploring self-assessment tools certainly offers tremendous insight, though not much for direction toward your best path. That answer is within you.

The ‘what’ question about your best path is one for which I am particularly suited to help you answer. With a balanced EIQ, education and experience in both hard and soft skills as well as a highly intuitive nature, my best path and best self unite in serving your Best Self. Perhaps we can talk?

Individual Support for Conscious Co-Creation

For the future and perhaps your part in the evolution of our planetary society, we need to learn how to get along as a global village and in support of not just sustainability, thrivability. As we’ve found from the discoveries of quantum physics and the nature of reality being built on vibration, or vibrating strings, we have to learn to sense our way through life. Thinking about it is just not enough.

Of course being your Best Self is just the beginning. Aptitude and attitude for agility and innovation is a requirement in today’s business, educational, environmental, industrial, political and societal arenas. Systems thinking got a huge boost with Senge’s work, including personal mastery and the development of learning organizations. How do we take that forward in regard to our global needs now?

ZERO to ONE – Making Our Way Toward a Conscious Civilization takes a holistic view of systems, starting with a grander view of what’s inside of us naturally. It offers considerations and references for first conceiving an inner and outer relationship with our lives as a reality. It then takes the organizational development notions to a natural conclusion of the inclusion of our innate abilities, natural design and transformational qualities necessary for a brighter future.

Just consider this: What would it be like if you were able to live in quantum entanglement with the unified field? What would that mean for you?

Filed Under: attitude of gratitude, career coaching, challenge to change, cognitive science, executive coaching, intelligent design, leadership, life coach, thought leadership, transformational coaching, vision Tagged With: awareness, belief systems, Cognitive neuroscience, Cognitive science, Consciousness, experience systems, experiential wisdom, self-assessment, self-awareness, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

Life’s Puzzle Pieces – The Art and Science of Assembly

October 8, 2021 by Zen

life's puzzle piecesLife’s Puzzle Pieces –

The Art and Science of Assembly

Life’s Puzzle Pieces walks you through the tasty tidbits of tactical and strategic transformation from decades of in-depth empathic and self-development tools discovered, learned and practiced through a lifetime of contact, consideration and confluence of and with the One. I’ve learned about spooky action at a distance up close. We can create our own Unified Field.

Life’s Puzzle Pieces takes you deep into your own process and offers you the ability to consider many points of view, challenging you to change on a moment to moment basis. Life is a process. Solving puzzles is a process – utilizing the Law of Attraction. This material is perfect for spiritual beings in process of becoming, too.

The most exciting puzzle is one of your own design that you haven’t discovered yet. That’s the one that is latent within you, just waiting for you to ask the right questions so it can burst forth with answers to lead you toward your perfected form, fit and function in the world. It’s a simple step-by-step process.

As a transformational life coach, having a life of varied professional accomplishments, life events and opportunities, I first had to learn about this process and protocols of epistemological and ontological confluence. In other words, I had to learn what made sense beyond the mundane and programmed lifestyles many of us lead.

It took decades to discover and demonstrate proficiency as an educator and practitioner, let alone a transformational life coach. The talk doesn’t matter if you aren’t walking it. Anyone can make money, it’s HOW you align with self, others and Earth that creates fulfillment and true success in your lifetime.

Life’s Puzzle Pieces – The Art and Science of Assembly

Orphaned at birth with an early adoption brought about enough challenges, yet a near-death experience as a teenager launched a life-long quest for learning the secrets of finding balance between inner and outer realities. I considered the notion of living in quantum entanglement with the unified field, a heightened sense of connectedness.

Prior to this book, Stubbing My T.O.E. on Purpose – A Seminal View of Consciousness, Cosmology and the Congruence of Science and Spirituality received not only a personal recommendation, it also landed me an interview that was a 28-year wish come true.

Zen Benefiel, literally, takes us with him on his journey from drums to conundrums. His mind is facile as he weaves a narrative ranging from deep within the esoteric/ufology subculture to lessons of marriage, family, and business life. He draws upon archetypal psychology with a particular appreciation for the creative godhead archetype. If you read this book with an open heart, you may find yourself discovering new vistas of your own.

Jeffrey Mishlove, PhD

Host, New Thinking Allowed YouTube channel

I’d produced and hosted a TV show in Phoenix that began in 1990, with the hope of someday being worthy of an interview with one of two hosts I wanted to emulate – Dr. Jeffery Mishlove and Bill Moyers. In June of 2018, a serendipitous moment brought Dr. Mishlove’s attention and contact for anther matter that evolved into three conversations for his YouTube Channel – New Thinking Allowed and nearly 17,000 views total.

 

I don’t just talk about the journey… I show you how you can take your own. Start with this and perhaps we can explore further possibilities. You’ll get a download link for your gift with jus a little information:

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Filed Under: challenge to change, executive coaching, intelligent design, leadership, life coach, life coaching, meditation, self-knowledge, spiritually transformative experiences, transformation, transformational coaching, vision Tagged With: awareness, belief systems, Cognitive neuroscience, Cognitive science, Consciousness, experience systems, experiential wisdom, transformation, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

Turning the Great Reset into a Great Awakening

April 19, 2021 by Zen

Great Reset into the Great Awakening?

Can we turn what’s being called the ‘great reset’ into a ‘great awakening’ that is beneficial? We’ve all been affected by the last year’s chaos and confusion over a pandemic that has the world in it’s grip, right? Businesses across industries and sizes have been saddled with the challenges of agility, perseverance and transformation to incorporate new demands and a shifting marketplace. Much of what was once done face-to-face has transformed into virtual encounters and/or organizational meetings.

I turned to a world-renowned leader for some additional perspectives, possible guidance and world view. Klaus Schwab is the Executive Director of the World Economic Forum, an organization that features global leaders and shapes economic policies that trickle down to you and me. Beyond the bi-polar views of the organization and its function, he notes some critical issues we face. Whether we like it or not, we’ve become a global village made up of people like you and me, as well as local, regional, national and global organizations struggling to meet the demands of this new 21st Century outlook.

great reset into a great awakeningKlaus’ questions about ‘can we be caring and compassion toward each other coming out of COVID?’ and ‘will businesses be agile enough to meet the demands and survive, let alone thrive?’ are certainly important questions we all need to consider; if not personally then for our businesses or companies. We simply must find a way to work together better and offer solutions that allow us to remain free and unencumbered by medical or political restrictions. Healthy people, and humanity in general, need options that don’t prohibit the evolution of our specie toward a Type 1 Civilization, our next step in our planetary civilization’s evolution toward the stars.

My life experience is one that has allowed me to consider other aspects of our reality, our interconnectedness across many fields of play. I say play because we are all actors who determine our own scripts, whether we realize it or not. The notion of cosmic consciousness condensed into form, which was the core understanding I received in a near-death experience as a teen in college in 1975, gives us pause to consider just how powerful our choices, our feelings and our thoughts are and how they affect our reality. Larry Dossey, MD, in his book One Mind (highly recommended), brings ancient and current understanding into view and illustrates, through examples of extraordinary abilities, that we are inexperienced and vastly under-educated in the knowledge of self, let alone others.

Can we turn the great reset into the great awakening? My transformational life coaching practice echoes this understanding as I work with clients who have dreams and aspirations and a loosely developed skillset that allows them to at least begin the journey of moving their dreams to reality. Several clients have come, some after consulting other business coaches who give them data dumps but no ‘how to’ hand-holding, only to find out that through careful and considerate questions the path for them opens as we craft action plans for them to do so. Whether they realize it or not there are spiritual practices that support their journey. The most simple is the old adage paraphrased, ‘where two or more are gathered, there I am also.’ Here’s an interesting question: Who are you?

Turning the Great Reset into the Great Awakening

For at least a couple of decades I made regular visits to discussion groups and workshops on self-improvement and self-development. The question I closed the last paragraph with was asked quite often, which drew out all kinds of answers. Some referred to what their jobs were, some were spiritual like ‘I am a divine being’ and some were focused on family relationships. Those were all good answers and relevant to the individuals, though the deeper truth seemed illusive, and all-encompassing answer that worked for everyone. I was first asked the question in the early 80s in Jim Tolleson’s Empire Builders weekend intensive held at the Francisco Grande in Casa Grande, Arizona.

My answer: “I Am… and the rest is up to your perception.” How or why did I answer that way? The simple answer is that my NDE allowed me to reference what appeared to be the fact that even as a cosmically conscious individual, others were bereft of the experience and therefore could only see me through their own lenses of perception. Every time we encounter another, those lenses apply whether we are cognizant of them or not. We see people, places and things through our own lens, developed or not. So how to we develop a better, more expansive lens, or do we? Perhaps a more well-developed lens will assist the process of converting the great reset into the great awakening.

I had a recent conversation with a business leader and philanthropist who mentioned Marianne Williamson’s quote in part. I’ll include the whole quote here as you will see how powerful it could be for you:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

In the growth to self-awareness and success we have to address the fears we encounter, and we all encounter fears. An old friend, Willy Whitefeather [RIP], in an interview I had with him for One World so many years ago, offered an interpretation that I’ve seen repeated over and over for decades. ‘FEAR is only False Evidence Appearing Real. What we seek to do is Free Every Anxious Reaction.’ The young whippersnapper in me piped up with, ‘and what we usually do is F.. Everything And Run.’ It’s quite interesting how the latter is absolutely true. We avoid rather than lean into our fears. Let’s turn this great reset into a great awakening of the human spirit of transcendence.

Embracing Your Own Creative Power

god realized understood - great reset into a great awakeningImagine if you embraced the notion that you were powerful beyond measure. How would that look? Probably pretty scary at first. As a transformational life coach I start with that premise and work with clients to extend and integrate that awareness into their lives, their personal experience system beyond the beliefs they may have been entertaining for most of their lives. Their lives truly transform.

One client recently came to me with a dream of having her own TV show, among other things. The pandemic had severely dampened her work; doing live performances as an artist painting icons on the fly. No events meant no work. Sound familiar?

That all changed in a matter of months. Her faith in God played a huge part, though she didn’t realize it really turned into faith in herself. Our agreement (where two or more…) of her dream-come-true fueled the thoughtmospheric action that allowed it to come forth, first as a single show in an ongoing series that features a pay-it-forward theme. It worked so well that the producers began discussing the potentials of her own show and were going to pitch it to their network of over 75 million viewers. I don’t want to reveal much more, though you’ll find her in my testimonials, as the events are still unfolding. So, what is your dream or dreams?

Certainly I cannot take credit for the entire flow of events. I was merely a player in them, knowing the right script in order to engage the spectacle of transforming dreams into reality. How do I do that? Can it be learned? How can you take advantage of your own brilliance, skillset and talent? I’m able to do it through decades of practice, trial and error and learning the depths of cognitive science in order to apply the principles on a regular, if not on-demand, basis. Of course you can learn it, too, and with the help of a coach/mentor it is certainly much easier and truncates the timeframe you’d experience just doing it on your own. Taking advantage of your brilliance, skillset and talent means you lift yourself out of the self-deprecation and self-doubt you’ve no doubt included in your internal dialog with self for years.

Is This for YOU?

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This workbook is set up for a 30-day process. It will change your life for the better.

My program isn’t or everyone. It’s demanding of your intelligence, your ability to suspend beliefs and learning how to read the signs that are all around you at any given moment that you’ve been dismissing or missing altogether. It’s a kind of science of mind, an application of cognitive science, though there is really no religion or spirituality to it. It’s built in to every one of us by design. Like Larry Dossey offers in One Mind, and I can deliver to you as an experience over time…

Imagine a united consciousness, an awareness of which all of our minds are a part . . . and a potential way out of the division, greed, and destruction that threaten to engulf our world.

Most of the books about our connectedness offer examples of others who’ve managed to perform beyond the imagination and, consequently, have become objects of reference and study. Some offer methods to experiment and explore your own natural abilities, gifts and talents. After a decade or so of coaching and consulting, I put together a guide of my own, called Transformation: A Guide for Change. It’s got many of the exercises I learned and some that I found on my own through experimentation, trial and error, that worked really well. Since you are here, I’ll offer you a free download, without requiring your email or name, so you can test it for yourself and perhaps follow up with me.

A Kind of Revolution That Elevates instead of desimates

Filed Under: career coaching, challenge to change, cognitive science, executive coaching, intelligent design, leadership, life coaching, management consulting, self-knowledge, spiritually transformative experiences, transformational coaching, vision Tagged With: awareness, belief systems, Cognitive neuroscience, Cognitive science, Consciousness, experience systems, experiential practice, experiential wisdom, great reset into a great awakening, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

Author Zen Benefiel – Indie Beacon Radio Interview

April 8, 2021 by Zen

Introducing the author side of your Transformational Life Coach.

author zen benefiel“I believe we are far more capable of doing things beyond our imagination than we give ourselves credit. In fact, the simple act of making a step toward achieving a dream brings many worlds into order and available for support.” Author Zen Benefiel

Conversations that matter involve many dimensions of reality; having them are the first step to creating meaningful relationships in the world. My transformational life coaching practice has proven that people are for more capable of great things than they believe themselves to be. It just takes some adjustments as to how we think, which often determines how we feel. We take an opposite approach based on indigenous traditions and proven process that engage the mind/body/spirit in practical ways.

Author Zen Benefiel

As an author, my works have largely been explorations of self and the processes for rising to a new living awareness that incorporates best practices across a plethora of fields and industries. You’ll notice in the interview that my background is quite extensive in personal experience of transcending tragedy and professional endeavors involving hundreds of people and millions of dollars.

In an interview with Dr. Jeffrey Mishlove, for New Thinking Allowed YouTube Channel, Jeff mentions the unique ability I have to experience, observe and report on even the most subjective events. Being able to see ourselves without criticisms or convoluted emotional attachments is imperative in personal growth and professional achievement. Perhaps you’ll find some tasty tidbits in the interview that offer you new insight and understanding from author Zen Benefiel.

In this episode of the Indie Beacon Show, hostess Dr. Keitha Story-Stephenson talks with Zen Benefiel to learn how he uses the quote above in his life and service to others.

The Indie Beacon Show, sponsored by the Author’s Marketing Guild.

Filed Under: intelligent design, leadership, spiritually transformative experiences, transformational coaching, vision Tagged With: Cognitive science, experiential wisdom, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

What’s Your New Normal in Coming Out of COVID?

March 10, 2021 by Zen

Considering we’ve all been through one of the most challenging years in recent history, there’s an opportunity in the challenge to ascend from the pandemic. What does it mean for us individually and/or collectively?

The Great Reset is in process and hopefully those smarter and wiser are facilitating a new normal that fits a sustainable outlook for our future. We really cannot afford to become engrossed with conspiracy notions now, however true they may be. We’ve got to learn how to work together for a brighter, sustainable future.

There are many perspectives to consider. In doing so, my wife and I decided to read Klaus Schwab’s book, COVID-19: The GREAT RESET. We found at least a couple of interesting questions he presented that just make sense to address. In spite of adverse perspectives presented in a ‘globalist’ mindset, it’s just a perspective. We can learn from anything or anyone who seeks a better future. We all have different ideas as to what that might look like, and some amalgamation will occur.

Individual Resets

new normalSchwab is the Founder and Executive Director of the World Economic Forum, and just might know a thing or two. We found something of great interest in his exploration of individual resets, speaking of the forced isolation, whether in an apartment or palatial mansion:

“A variety of such observations have prompted not only social commentators but also the general public itself to ponder whether the pandemic succeeded in bringing the best out of us and in so doing triggering a search for higher meaning. Many question came to mind, like: Might the pandemic give birth to better selves and to a better world? Will it be followed by a shift in values? Will we become more willing to nurture our human bonds and more intentional about maintaining our social connections? Simply put: will we become more caring and compassionate?”

So this ‘new normal’ caring and compassionate side of things does sound a bit like a globalist (a person who advocates the interpretation or planning of economic and foreign policy in relation to events and developments throughout the world.), and transhumanist (a philosophical movement the proponents of which advocate the enhancement of the human condition by developing and making widely available sophisticated technologies able to greatly enhance longevity, mood and cognitive abilities.) approach.

Most of us cannot comprehend the level of people, planning, strategy and wisdom necessary to map out a future for a planet of any kind, let alone a sustainable one. We can and will move forward; just how well we do it will depend on how mindful we can become toward the needs of people and planet. It’s a much different mindset than we’ve enjoyed in the industrial and even beginning of the information age. Digitization and virtual environments have shifted how we work dramatically.

A recent TV series that has both British and American versions, UTOPIA, presents many ethical and moral dilemmas needing to be faced regarding a sustainable future. Like many conspiratorial perspectives, the series shows the behind-the-scenes activity that could exist, and in some form probably does. The gist of the theme is the development of two proteins (one in meat substitute and one in a vaccine) that, when combined in the body, produce sterility in 95% or the population for 3 generations. Like an agenda for population control, we’re faced with the reality that it could be in process with a ‘plandemic’ that offers opportunity.

Complex Systems

Schwab further define areas of focus to include Interdependence, Velocity and Complexity. Schwab states that one word that distils the 21st century would be ‘interdependence,’ and that tech progress and globalization creates the velocity of it. He makes a comment about complexity that I took issue with, but from a different perspective. Complexity doesn’t matter when we start from very simple models, micro-versions with repeating patterns everywhere.

Complex systems are often characterized by an absence of visible causal links between their elements, which makes them virtually impossible to predict. Deep in ourselves, we sense that the more complex a system is, the greater the likelihood that something might go wrong and that an accident or an aberration might occur and propagate.

Regarding the latter, there’s a ‘new normal’ counter-offer and it flies in the face of the modern physics’ concept of entropy. Schwab states a belief system, imho, and we accept it as true. However, from an aware and centered perspective there is a greater likelihood that something will go right and propagate. My life examples that, unless I’m living in some parallel world. Many are experiencing a shift in things going right, simply because they’ve enjoyed the forced isolation and sequestration and looked inward.

That also deserves attention, that good can be propagated just as well. Perhaps it’s a matter of whether we see something from an inner perspective, coherent and connected, or an outer perspective that is overwhelmed by the complexity and feels disconnected. It’s like the glass half full or empty thing. It doesn’t matter when you have the pitcher and refills are unlimited.

For now, let’s remain emotionally distant from judgment. This is just an exploration, a thought experiment if you will. We’ll get into options in a moment.

Advanced Reset

new normalIt seems that in order to find harmony in any kind of great reset, we need to understand that the two perspectives are valid and may indeed be a key to understanding the Tao. As we learn to ask better questions, perhaps considering the bridging of the two is worth some effort. How else can we look at or perceive the situation? Is there an expanded view we can take?

When duality is perceived, there is a fine line within the Tao. When we attempt to perceive the oneness, the line disappears and we begin to experience harmony. Harmony isn’t the absence of chaos, it’s the effective integration of it. Chaos naturally reveals order in more complex systems, not necessarily as a result of entropy. It’s there for us to learn how it fits.

The reality is we’re in a very complex system that has grown to global proportions out of interdependence and velocity of change as well as expectations of delivery in the get-it-now age. We don’t understand how it all works, and many don’t care as long as it does. Where does the care and nurturing of human beings in the ‘new normal’ fit in?

Does it? We’re in the midst of a huge change in behavior, moved not so much by climate change now, which is a true crisis, but by economic, social and health concerns governed by corporate interests driven by the profit over people agenda we’ve had for decades. Seems our greatest fears of a dystopian future are being thrown in our faces for review and re-negotiation.

I don’t know, but I suspect, that the great reset will include an inner revolution brought about by the self-hygiene turned inward. People are questioning their values, morals and ethics more than ever, or at least they appear to be. I’ve questioned my ethics, moral and values over my lifetime, so it is nothing new. I’ve grown to know the value of being considerate, kind and observant way beyond the normal ego-centric perspective.

This might sound way out there… For me, it’s like taking an alternative view of the Tao. It’s a two-dimensional symbol. What if we added a third dimension? Could there be something we’ve missed? We need to look at ourselves from the perspective of unity in consciousness. What are those core values?

TAO de New Normal

new normalI’m known for looking at things differently. That’s my job as a transformational life coach and supporter of human evolution. In assessing problems and creating solutions, multiple perspectives are needed. Circular thinking takes critical thinking to a new height. Imagine if we could incorporate a kind of spherical thinking, ignited by the insights received through developing an inner connection.

What if the Tao symbol had a deeper meaning, perhaps a cross-section of our DNA helix with the pulses of light caught in a still view?

It’s not practical in a ‘new normal,’ you might say. The argument is that it is the most practical and pragmatic, recognizing the interconnectedness and access to infinite intelligence through cosmic consciousness. It’s really the next bio-spiritual piece of human evolution. We learn how to manage our reality better, furthering efforts toward a Type 1 civilization and growing together instead of falling separately.

Innovation comes through insight, usually, something that just pops into your head after long periods of contemplation. It’s the same thing only we don’t practice the process of getting access. We don’t have a pause button, let alone the ability to pull back and observe without fear. That goes back to Klaus’ comment above, we expect calamity. You know as well as I do, our imagined fears rarely manifest, yet they drive our lives.

Time to let go of that paradigm, eh? Risk management needs to evolve, emerge as reward management – what happens when we do the right things and good things happen as a result. How do we answer Schwab’s question: Can we be caring and compassionate toward one another? We haven’t been. We’ve been very self-centered and separative in our individual lives, especially in developed countries. We let things happen as long as they aren’t in front of our faces, and sometimes even then.

What ‘New Normal’ ?

new normalHow do we redirect the self-sabotaging of consumerism? Our current paradigm is that our purchasing power and acquisition of wealth is self-actualization, not self-sabotaging. We have acknowledged that we’re polluting the atmosphere and planet beyond measure, yet we haven’t changed our habits of living. It’s interesting that during the pandemic and sequestration, we learned how to get along with less activity and ‘stuff’ we once thought was necessary for our happiness.

We went from at least feigned trust-relationships to questioning everyone we meet on the street as being potentially infected. No looking each other in the eye, no hand shakes, so hugs in public and heck, there was no public for a time. As we come out of the masquerading (mixed reviews on the effectiveness of masks) in developing a ‘new normal’ and the essential gagging of the voices of dissenters all over the world, how will we incorporate a new path without dragging the past with us?

Does some kind of ‘spiritual’ or ‘progressive thinking’ path have value? Without fail, every transcendent path contains the cautionary tales of carrying baggage onto the flight. We cannot learn to fly with an anchor around our necks, some embedded in the ground so deep we cannot even consider letting go, let alone do it. Yet, we must in order to create a future free of the constraints of the past. It’s all good, we just need to let our history go.

By letting our ‘his-story’ go we make ‘her-story’ available for view. I know that sounds trite, perhaps, yet it is the feminine qualities that bring out caring and compassionate actions toward others. Patriarchal systems are all about dominance and manipulation of people, places and things for profit, whether it’s capitalism or communism – leaders profit greatly. Matriarchal systems, on the other hand, have always been concerned with the care and maintenance of the village through the care and concern for the children. We’ve lost that awareness; fallen into the trap of acquisition over people and planet and thought it ‘good.’

Transformation Life Coaching’s Role

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The notion of a ‘new normal’ in which one can transform their life has been around for a long time. We read and see many stories about those who’ve gone from travesty to triumph, tragedy to transcendence. Now we’re in a position where the population would do well to visit those processes that facilitate such overwhelmingly consistent results. Those who’ve turned inward early in life and chosen a path of service are prime suspects for supportive processes and programs.

The core of change is shifting habits, plain and simple. We have habits of activity, of feeling, even of thinking. We cannot recognize those habits on our own, usually. All we know is that our efforts aren’t producing the desired results. We know change is necessary as doing the same things over and over and expecting different results falls into Einstein’s definition of insanity. How do we change?

Self-examination is the first step. Until we are more aware of our habits and processes, we are incapable of change. The foundation for change just isn’t there. We don’t know our liabilities, limitation and excuses until someone can reflect them in a supportive environment. The ability of a transformational life coach to engage, inquire and reflect ignites the process. The goal is to connect the appropriate and necessary behavioral changes with simple action plans and consistent monitoring to ensure their success.

My early goal was to get the education and experience to be able to reflect the process of developing a consistent method for acquiring insight, inspiration and intelligence to lead others on their journey. I’ve been able to continue to grow in my own awareness as I’ve coached others over the last couple of decades. I continue to look for simplified ways of sharing knowledge, again with the notion of Einstein’s view of understanding – if you can’t explain it simply then you really don’t understand it well enough.

Now in my 60s, I feel like my life has been in preparation to assist others with insight and inspiration for meeting the challenges; practical and pragmatic understanding of facilitating people, places and things to achieve goals, especially those aligned with an inspired vision for life. In that light, I invite you to engage me if you feel a bit of resonance in how I’ve presented the possibilities for a ‘new normal’ to emerge from the pandemic in support of our mutual benefit and sustainability in the world. You’ll be amazed at the results you will get. You will be better prepared for any future as a result. Just reach out.

Filed Under: challenge to change, communication, intelligent design, leadership, self-knowledge, spiritually transformative experiences, vision Tagged With: awareness, belief systems, Consciousness, experience systems, Subjective experience, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

God Realized Understood: How do we experience God?

February 18, 2021 by Zen

God Understood Realized

Just so I set this up properly. This question seems worth sharing. “What if god cannot be Understood only realized. Is that still god?” This piece is an exploration of that question. The following was my response to the question on a social media platform, expanded a little, and I think it might spark some deeper thinking in contemplating your next move. We’re in process of the ‘new normal,’ right? At least it will provide for some interesting reading….

Do you want to know what truth is? By that I mean truth about our nature, our Being. I hope so. It seems most folks don’t care. They like being guided by external forces they believe they can trust. The real truth can truly set you free to explore your world without constraint because it comes from inside us. What? Yes.

I’m going to share something and hope those who see it as incredulous will open their minds a little. The considerations are from experience and not theory, although some are contained therein. I’m sure it will raise some questions and perhaps provide some points to consider further. I trust my gut (first brain) in sharing poignant pieces.

As you’re about to see, my inquiry into self started as a kind of right of passage. It was unique for a teenager which made it challenging to be understood by adults. Is it normal to pray to know truth, be willing to die for it and really mean it? As a transformational coach now, that commitment led me into a rare and transcendent life on the inside. Few go there, which is why my clients really love the process of tapping into their own inner worlds. I open a lot of doors for them and its tough to encapsulate that in a review.

Passage… is it a right?

god realized understoodIn 1975 I’d retuned to college after quarter break, heart-broken and seeking solace beyond this world. I hit my knees and prayed to know truth and a willing to literally give up my life to know it; God understood and realized. The impact of ‘be careful what you ask for’ hit hard. The event instilled an understanding that we, human beings, are cosmic consciousness condensed into form.

This individuation from the Great Light of infinite intelligence and formative capacity condenses into a single point of individuated and purposeful consciousness. It’s still connected, though so distantly we are usually unaware unless something ignites our desire for self-awareness. Google ‘Messy Antic Complex’ for full report.

Over a decade later and after another heart-breaking experience, 1989 to be specific, I was introduced to a technique called ‘Multi-level Awareness’ (William Swygard 1950s) where a facilitator leads the session with prompts to explore various realms within. I’d done several sessions prior.

Although I had no intention specifically to address a question about the origins of the ‘trinity’ strewn across our religions and society; apparently it was time for the reveal. Funny what emotional trauma will prompt in our growth and questions about the reality we think we know. Our vulnerability is a key witness.

In those prior sessions I’d corroborated what I though could be possible, that there are processes that assist entering one’s deeper experience to a more connected network of intelligence. It relates to that question above and if one were prone to the fear, guilt, blame and shame game, could be self-damaging instead of rewarding. It isn’t a question of sanity, it’s a question of experience and vulnerability.

The final piece is trusting your experience and the intuitive prompts that come. In indigenous traditions, they call it the ‘First Brain,’ where creation connects vibrationally in our solar plexus. I think it’s misspelled and should be ‘soular’ plexus and a source for God to be understood and realized within.

Nowhere to Now Here

god realized understoodWe began the session with the standard self-hypnosis technique of creating a light body and projecting my consciousness into it for travel, with no expectations as to where. One of the key components is learning how to set the analytical mind aside and just experience the moment. We tend to over-analyze strange things instead of engaging or experiencing them without concern or fear.

The safety and security of the environment allows this for some; to explore without analysis. In the final moments of the preparation process, my ‘guide’ (whom I’d known since just after the 1975 event) showed up unexpectedly on the inner screen and invited me to ‘come’ with him with a wave of his hand. So I did.

Just to clarify and reference, I was reading a lot of material after my experience. Mom taught Evelyn Wood speed reading so I learned it early and was able to devour a lot in a short time. Castaneda’s works were among them, which is where I first learned of ‘guides.’ After Zephyr’s beckoning and immediately sensing we were in motion, his astral image changed from human to a ball of light with his face profiled on the front of it.

He had a nose like Jimmy Durante. I had no idea where we were going and, after asking and being told to just ‘wait and see’ we had a recap conversation about the years in between our last conversation. Before I knew it we arrived at our destination. I felt like Ellie seeing the universe laying before her, an awe that opens one to near tears of joy.

In front of me was a three-sun system with about a dozen bright green and much smaller planets in orbit, much like our solar system. The sight was so amazing it was caught up in the awe of the moment. Next thing I ‘hear’ are at least three voices as one: “We are not only your forefathers, we are also the forefathers of your solar system.”

I started to ask questions and was halted by my guide with, “That’s all you get. You’ll figure it out.” Figure what out? Now I had more questions than answers. I don’t know about you. I love to have questions. It unleashes the insatiable curiosity within me, still; to know truth.

Back we came engaged in a deeper level of conversation about my personal progress of aligning with my perfected form, fit and function in the world, and still with no direct answers about how what had just happened fit in the process. What I did know is that the trip there and back took the same amount of time, so there was consistency. How we went was somehow connected to some kind of hyper-drive that took us across the universe. Where we went seemed like the center of creation.

God Realized Understood

god realized understoodMy research and paying attention to the facts that are shown before me gave me some insight that this experience built upon. I mused over one of the models with a three-fold flame representing our core essence. I thought about the symbol I’d been shown, a hexagram with a 666 in the upper triangle and a 999 in the lower one.

The thought also brought up the notion of a ‘trinitized’ body; one that was somehow energized by the open connection to ‘Source,’ if you will. I needed a scientific model and with the question came the image of an atom, with a proton, electron and neutron. The infinite intelligence driving the bus was in the space, the ‘dark matter’ we know is there and cannot see, yet.

My first question was regarding how the macro-model fit into the micro-model, as I knew fractals are embedded everywhere. I knew the 666 as the ‘number of man’ and it seemed to point to the carbon atom as proof. If this ‘trinitized’ form existed, would it naturally reveal our ‘perfected’ form, fit and function in the world? Hmmm… Do we even consider that question in our daily lives or professional endeavors or relationships?

So how does this answer the original question: “What if god cannot be Understood only realized. Is that still god?”

It would seem that the combination of self-actualization (form) and self-realization (consciousness) gives an experience of a near-godlike quality, at least. like we are truly connected to reality in ways we cannot imagine yet. Some say we are gods and goddesses in embryo, children as it were. I personally think the term ‘God’ gets folks confused and continues a separative notion that doesn’t belong, in my opinion. We need to question our beliefs, potentially finding solace in the truth.

Preponderance of Evidence

Think of the thousands if not millions of years of evolution, both biological and in consciousness (perhaps spiritual) that it would take to develop that depth of awareness and actually live in it. The growth in self-awareness and quantum sciences reflect very similar patterns and that, perhaps, we live in God as God lives in us. We just can’t grok it, yet. One of my clients expressed that I was like a master puzzle maker:

The dynamics and potentialities of positive outcomes defy logic. Logic even mathematicians and philosophers have long pondered. Something even Richard Feynman didn’t have enough time and still needed to examine, Quantum Love. What would it be like to meet the actual FUTURE puzzle makers themselves? This is what it is like to meet with Zen and his work.

And to that end, I created a couple of videos that sum the evidence up succinctly, I think. The first part came months ago as I was pondering how to assist the ‘new normal’ evolving in our world after the pandemic. The second, after being introduced to Wilbert Smith’s book, The New Science, and the inclusion of ‘nothingness’ mentioned by people from elsewhere. The book contains incomplete memoirs published in 1964, a couple of years after his death. I can only say the material, even incomplete, is profound. Here’s the video of the combined pieces if you’re interested.

Great question, by the way, “What if god cannot be Understood only realized. Is that still god?” God understood realized, our future puzzle.

Filed Under: leadership, life coaching, self-knowledge, spiritually transformative experiences, transformation Tagged With: awareness, belief systems, Cognitive science, Consciousness, experience systems, experiential wisdom, transformational life coaching, wisdom sharing

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